The loss of a loved one is a devastating emotional roller coaster. You want and need to know that your loves are still with you and that their souls continue to exist in the afterlife. You start reaching out to mediums, wanting to make a connection with your loved ones.
Along with the many questions that are going through your mind, you also wonder, “How long should I wait to contact my loved one after they’ve passed?”
The answer is: there is no set time frame.
Spirit will communicate as soon as they are ready. There is no set time frame to wait to connect. You know better than anyone else when the time is right for you and when you feel emotionally ready. Spirit wants to reach out to you and will be there, when you are ready.
Each and every reading is a very unique and validating experience. You’ll want to fully embrace it.
There are a few things that you can do to prepare for that beautiful experience:
1. Be emotionally ready.
Connecting with your loved one is both beautiful and emotional. Spirit acknowledges past and present events. Expect laughter and tears. Be in an emotional place that you are able to savor this beautiful experience.
2. Expect the unexpected.
Many times there is more than one loved one that comes through or a message from your loved one may not make sense at the time, but later makes perfect sense. Be prepared to write or record your session so that you can recall the messages you have received and save them.
3. Write your questions.
Prior to your session, take a few minutes to gently ask your loved ones to come through with whatever they would like to share with you. You can even write about five questions that you have for them. This paper is for your eyes only. Fold it up and put it in your pocket or wallet.
4. Expect validations, not a conversation.
If you’re expecting your reading to be like making a phone call to the afterlife, it’s not that simple… Unfortunately, it’s not 1800-Heaven. Spirit communicates by sending me images and messages that I have to interpret and convey to you – through vibrations. These messages will be validations that spirit needs you to know. Spirit is in charge and runs the show.
5. Pull out your notes.
After your session, take out your folded piece of paper with your questions and compare it to your notes from your session. They often match up!
What experiences have you had with a medium? If you have had a session, did you wait a long time before seeing a medium?
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